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What is home care? Home care (non-medical), also known as in-home care, private duty or custodial care; is supportive care provided in the home to assist with daily living activities. Caregivers are... more
What is home care? Home care (non-medical), also known as in-home care, private duty or custodial care; is supportive care provided in the home to assist with daily living activities. Caregivers are trained to provide non-medical care to assist seniors with Activities of Daily Living (ADLs) such as bathing, dressing, getting in and out of bed, and assistance with toilet. Other services that they can provide include: cooking, cleaning, laundry, transportation and other general assistance. Home care services allow people to remain at home rather than use residential, long-term or institutional nursing care. How do I pay for home care services? These services are usually paid with Long Term Care insurance or out of pocket. Services range from $15-35/hr depending on location and number of hours needed.
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Chris Cooper
Chris Cooper
Private Fiduciary, Trustee,Conservator, Financial Advisor

Between $3,500 and $6,000 a month, depending on the facility.  If you were to hire enough help to do assisted living at home, it would be over $120,000 a year!

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Admond Fong
Admond Fong
Senior Specialist

The estimated monthly cost of an assisted living facility depends on the state you live in and the type of services you need. On the higher end of the spectrum (ie. Alzheimer / dementia care) can cost up to $10,000/month for a private room depending on location. The lower end of monthly cost can be... more

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Chris Cooper
Chris Cooper
Private Fiduciary, Trustee,Conservator, Financial Advisor

This is called the right of self determination.  Health care facilities  must respect the rights of people, even when we disagree.  No one ever died for lack of bathing!  As long as he is no danger to himself or others, that's the way it is.

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Vanessa Terzian
Vanessa Terzian
Estate Planning Attorney

I cannot comment about if there is a specific New York law, but I agree that this is a health issue. Here are a few things to consider:1. Does your husband have a valid Advance Healthcare Directive for his father? If so, review what sorts of powers that document gives him. 2. Consider speaking to... more

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Scot Cheben
Scot Cheben
Senior Advisor

In most states the Patient Bill of Rights suggests that you have the right to refuse treatment and be told what effect this may have on your health. As long as you're cognitive. I'll let a lawyer suggest an approach if they are not. Did your husband speak to his dad about this matter? Had dad... more

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Chris Cooper
Chris Cooper
Private Fiduciary, Trustee,Conservator, Financial Advisor

As I always ask "have you done your planning?" If you haven't done yours, then you can't expect your parents to do theirs. Lead by example. Show your mom and dad you Will, Trust and Powers of Attorney for financial and health care matters. Show them you have and are saving for your retirement... more

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Scot Cheben
Scot Cheben
Senior Advisor

I applaud you for being proactive! You are touching on multiple topics with this question. I reached out to a very special person, Chris Cooper to help answer this. Chris is the owner and founder of Chris Cooper & Company, a financial planning firm working with people who own small businesses... more

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Scot Cheben
Scot Cheben
Senior Advisor

With your Dad's situation, it would be best to have a Home Care Company that is located near the final destination. For example, if your dad is flying into LAX and then going to Pasadena to be with family... it would be best to hire a home care company in the Pasadena area. Have the company (or... more

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Admond Fong
Admond Fong
Senior Specialist

To add on to Scot's comments, we need more information on the status of your mother. Such as her age and whether she has earned enough social security credits. If she does meet those requirements, then she may also qualify for Social Security Disability Insurance benefits. Click on the below link... more

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Scot Cheben
Scot Cheben
Senior Advisor

This is a very tough decision to quit work and take care of your mom. Without understanding all of the financial background of everyone involved, let me explain that most of all federal and state government funded benefits are are either income based or participation based or both. What I mean by... more

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