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Included in a complete estate plan is a living will (or Advance Health Care Directive) nominating a health care agent and stating your wishes for end of life decisions and treatment. This document is... more
Included in a complete estate plan is a living will (or Advance Health Care Directive) nominating a health care agent and stating your wishes for end of life decisions and treatment. This document is clear and comprehensive, yet many times health care professionals still have a difficult time withholding life-saving treatments, even if administering them goes expressly against a patient’s clear wishes to the contrary. By considering your options early, you can ensure the quality of life that is important to you and avoid having your family 'guess' your wishes or having to make critical medical care decisions for you under stress or in emotional turmoil.
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Questions and Answers

Vanessa Terzian
Vanessa Terzian
Estate Planning Attorney

If you are the agent under the Advance Health Care Directive, you have the ability to make decisions regarding her Heath Care, but if she flat out refuses to work with you on this, it is a difficult situaton. Have you thought of hiring a geriatric care manager to come up with a care plan? Maybe your... more

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Vanessa Terzian
Vanessa Terzian
Estate Planning Attorney

Your dad would need to sign a new power of attorney (POA) to transfer the authority to you (or back to you) and revoke the prior POA(s). It sounds like, however, he may be suseptiable to undue influence. So possibly his girlfriend could get him to sign another POA again and it becomes difficult to... more

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Scot Cheben
Scot Cheben
Senior Advisor

The first step you should take is to do a lot of research on the subject. Look at the specific type of cancer he has as well. That means to search the web, talk to family and friends and maybe a doctor. Understand everything you can about this and then be understanding to your grandfather... more

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Admond Fong
Admond Fong
Senior Specialist

I'm sorry to hear about your grandfather's cancer. It's a difficult time for grandfather and your family; but there are things you can do now to be proactive with the progression of this disease. Adding to Vanessa's recommendations on the medical and financial power of attorney; also look into... more

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Vanessa Terzian
Vanessa Terzian
Estate Planning Attorney

From a legal stand point there a some key documents your grandfather should consider putting in place:A medical power of attorney, which nominates someone to make medical decisions;A financial power of attorney, which appoints an agent to make medical decisions; and Determine whether, depending on... more

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Chris Cooper
Chris Cooper
Private Fiduciary, Trustee,Conservator, Financial Advisor

Look at your state's palliative care website for health care directives for your state.  Or contact an elderlaw attorney

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Vanessa Terzian
Vanessa Terzian
Estate Planning Attorney

You would want to find out if your dad has a Advance Health Care Directive (AHCD), which is a legal document that names an agent to make medical decisions on his behalf. Along with this document, your dad should consider having a Living Will which addresses end of life decisions such as if he were... more

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Chris Cooper
Chris Cooper
Private Fiduciary, Trustee,Conservator, Financial Advisor

She needs hospice now to provide palliative care first, and then, if you chooses to stop treating her disease, then hospice begins,  Palliative care is invaluable!

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Chris Cooper
Chris Cooper
Private Fiduciary, Trustee,Conservator, Financial Advisor

The same legal documents  YOU and anyone over the age of 18 needs: Wills, Trusts, Powers of Attorney for business matters, Health Care directives.  Do you have yours?

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Vanessa Terzian
Vanessa Terzian
Estate Planning Attorney

This is a great opportunity to be proactive. There are two essential documents anyone should have that relate to legal and medical issues if one becomes incapacitated:power of attorney for finance: this document names a person or persons to make financial decisions for you in the event you are... more

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