When is the right time to talk to my parents about their aging issues so that we can all be on the same page as they get older?
My parents are still young, in their sixties but we've never talked about any plans in case something happens to them. I've been a planner my whole life and I just want to be prepared before something bad happens. Is their a checklist of things I need to discuss or plan for?
It is never too early to proactively talk about estate planning. I have family meetings with my clients and their children while my clients are in their 50s, so they are young and healthy still. It is always hard to talk about these things when we are in a crisis mode and stress levels as high. If you have done some estate planning of your own, that is a great place to start to bring up the subject.
Here are some topics to consider:
- Do they have a power of attorney
- Do they have an advance health care directive
- What are their wishes regarding end of life decisions
- To they have a trust or will
- Are they willing to share a 'location list' of where they have accounts and/or important documents.
This is a good start!
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